Monday, October 11, 2010

Monday Mixed Bag

How was your weekend? Mine was a mixed bag of fun and funk. The weather was lovely. Low 80s which is just my style. Saturday I got up and was doing stuff around the apartment and I decided to take the bisque bowls I bought to the carport to store them and I was carrying the box outside, I dropped them and all 4 of them broke :-( $60 worth of ceramics down the drain. The good news is I had not started painting them yet. If they were painted I would have been MORE upset.  I went to the storage and pulled out all my Halloween decoreations. I found this pumpkin that I painted made me smile.


My mom has been needing a new computer so we did that Saturday afternoon. We went to Best Buy and they were really helpful as usual.  I go there for all our computing needs.  I had left my bodybugg at her house on Thursday when we went to dinner so hence the reason why I have not been posting screen shots.

I picked up Dave's grandaughter from her soccer game on Saturday and it is right next door to the SF 49ers Training Camp (Santa Clara). Even though they are totally sucking this season, I still love our Niners. 

Sunday was a kick back day. I did a little shopping at Big Lots. That place is dangerous! I went to get some fall colored candles and I walked out $133 later. Can we say shopaholic! My eating was spotty and I did not eat lunch.

Dave decided to drink and came home drunk and picked a fight with me. He said he was done with me and going to move out. I would actually prefer that at this point. I love him but I don't deserve the poor treatment and I have done ALL that I can to help him. Honestly, I don't think he really wants to be sober which is a bummer but I can only be in control of me and how I choose to conduct myself. I will not spend the rest of my life with a drunk. I have already invested close to 5 years into our relationship and it is not going to improve at this point.  The good news is that we are not married and I am able to financially support myself so I will be fine. I will have to tighten the belt on my spending but I will be just fine.

After the fight, I ate chinese food that he brought home. I ate all the Walnut Prawns and then had some cheesecake for desert. My belly was not happy about either choice this morning. I had not eaten lunch so my calories for the day were not through the roof but certainly not ideal.

The good news is today is a new day. I am going to be getting my haircut after work tonight. It is in downtown Los Gatos which is one of my fave places. I used to work downtown and I miss being down there. There is a sushi place right behind the salon so that is what I will have for dinner tonight. Will most likely Wii when I get home. I got some new accessories that I will share with you tomorrow. Until next time...

12 comments:

  1. Sorry to hear you had a rough time with Dave. No you don't deserve poor treatment. Sorry to hear about the broken ceramics too :( Wish I could give ya a hug. Happy Haircut today!

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  2. What a weekend! I hope that you can find the peace you deserve, with or without Dave.

    P.S. I love Los Gatos - only got the chance to do a quick drive through downtown last summer; missed being able to shop there!

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  3. Sorry about how Dave is acting. Love the pumpkin. :)

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  4. Wow! You've had a lot going on! Hang in there! You know what is best for you.

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  5. Oh Katie, it must be man-dumping days. I will email you updates with my guy. He just takes more energy than I have right now.
    Hang in there. You DO deserve better treatment. We both do!!

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  6. Sorry about the fight with Dave, but like Melanie just said - you deserve so much better! Life is too short to be with someone like that - you deserve to be happy!

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  7. You had me at cheesecake for dessert! I'm jealous!

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  8. What a bummer about the bowls and the behavior of Dave. If he won't get help you have to do what is right and healthy for you.

    I agree with everyone that you deserve so much more.

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  9. Take good care of you, Katie J. I am sorry you are going through this rough time.

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  10. I'm so sorry about your fight with Dave, but you are SO right, Katie - you don't deserve that at all. Do what is best for YOU, okay? *Hugs*

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  11. Oh fun. I wish I had a wii. Your pumpkin made me smile too. You're right, it is a new day. I don't know what I would do if Ryan came home with Chinese. It is my favorite!

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  12. Aww Katie-this post made me sad-hope you are doing good.

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