I am really glad that it's Friday! I have run the gamut of emotions this week. Dave chose to pick a fight with me this morning and I am literally at my wits end with him. It will be a big adjustment but honestly I think I am better living without him at this point. One of my reasons for hanging in there this long was that he really does not have anywhere to go and I did not want to put someone in that situation but I am at a point that I feel it is on him to deal with it. I have done everything in my power to help (insert enable) him and I am just tapped dry. I know I have said this before... probably sound like a broken record... maybe he is mad enough that he will leave on his own...
I did not plan on this post being so somber, really! I have/had some great plans for the weekend... I am getting a pedicure and my hair colored in the morning. Going a little darker :-D I have Raspberry Sorbet polish and some little flowers to add for a little pizazz. I am going to get my hair cut in the afternoon in Downtown LG. I was planning on going to the beach but not sure if I will go now. Gym and working on my Dream board are on the agenda on Sunday . Although, if you have read my blog for any amount of time, plans are always subject to change LOL. Well I hope you have a great weekend! Until next time...
P.S. I want to do some updated Progress Pics. They are WAY overdue!
It will be interesting to see where you are in another few months...sounds like changes are a'coming!
ReplyDeleteI am with Shelley - you have to make the best life for YOU and I really believe at this point, its without Dave. He will survive somehow - he does not have to be your responsibility!
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Wow, that's a tough spot. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Do you think sitting down with him and making a plan for him to work on moving out would piss him off enough to make him leave? If you have made your decision, and know your life is better without him, then maybe baby steps would spur him on? Not sure what else to say. All I know is that I let my ex stay too long in my house, he continued to mooch, and then one day when I was working on the road I found out he completely trashed my house b/c he didn't care anymore.
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Sorry about the rough spot. I know you will do what is best for you.
ReplyDeleteI must say, I read your beach sentence and about died! Ohio is the freakin frozen tundra right now and a beach sounds FABULOUS! Soak up some rays for me if you go!
Glad you're going to pamper yourself after all the drama. Sorry you're going through this, Katie. Who needs it? Stay strong, kiddo.
ReplyDeleteCongrats to FAB on the win. I already follow her blog too.
Thanks!!!!! :>
ReplyDeleteSorry about the fighting. Honestly, only you know what you can deal with and this will continue until YOU decide you have had enough. Not until HE decides. Chin up my friend! I can't wait to see new progress pics with that new hair. :)
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